HBES Solicits Nominations for 2021 Executive Council Election

Dear HBES members,


2021 will be a big election year for the Executive Council. We are therefore seeking suggestions for nominees for the following positions:

  • President of HBES
  • Member-at-Large (two positions available)
  • Student Representative (must be current graduate student through spring 2023)

Please use this elections form on the HBES website to submit up to three suggestions for any of the positions. In the comment section of the form, please be sure to indicate the First and Last Name of the person you are suggesting AND the specific position you are suggesting the person for (i.e., President, Member at Large, or Student Representative).


Suggestions for Nominees are due by December 1, 2020.


Elections Process:

  1. HBES community submits suggestions for nominees of particular positions, listed above.
  2. The Elections Committee of the HBES Executive Council will consider the HBES community suggestions and internal suggestions for positions.
  3. The Elections Committee will contact all nominees to confirm their willingness to serve if elected.
  4. The final selection of nominees for all positions will be shared with the HBES community in January 2021.
  5. HBES members will vote during February 2021. Your membership MUST be active to be eligible to vote. You can join or renew here.
  6. Results will be announced by the President of HBES
  7. New officers will assume their roles after the 2021 HBES conference.

Welcome to HBES 2021 Palm Springs!

As the hosts, we would like to invite everyone to the 32nd annual HBES conference in sunny southern California. The conference will be held at the Marriott Renaissance Hotel in downtown Palm Springs. Convenient to the Palm Springs international airport or a three hour drive from Los Angeles. The city itself boasts a great selection of restaurants, bars, and cultural activities as well as the Village Fest Artisan Night Market every Thursday evening. Located in the Coachella Valley desert region, Palm Springs is sheltered by the San Bernardino Mountains to the north, the Santa Rosa Mountains to the south, by the San Jacinto Mountains to the west and by the Little San Bernardino Mountains to the east. Lots of opportunities to explore all the desert has to offer from golfing to spa life, the Living Desert Zoo, and much more.


The conference itself will begin on Wednesday June 2nd and run through Saturday the 5th. In additional to the usual activities, welcome reception, BBQ, and banquet, we have an exciting line up of plenary speakers including a diverse range of topics from evolutionary biology, psychology, and anthropology. We’re pleased to have Bobbi Low, our 2019 Lifetime Achievement Award recipient as our Keynote Speaker. We’re looking forward to receiving abstract submissions for talks, symposia, and posters beginning in November of 2020. Look for announcements from HBES and our official Twitter (@HBES2021), and check out the conference website which will be updated in October with important dates, hotel reservations, and other information.


Don’t forget student members, HBES is providing assistance with hotel costs and information on this will be on the hotel reservation page.


Looking forward to seeing you all! Please remember to bring sunscreen and a hat!



Catherine and Jessica

2020 Margo Wilson Award Winner

In 2009, the Publications Committee of HBES initiated an annual award for the best paper in each volume of Evolution and Human Behavior, “The Margo Wilson Award.” The award carries a cash prize of $1,500, and the winning paper is chosen by the Editorial Board of Evolution and Human Behavior.


This year, the competition for this award was fierce. At the beginning of the year, the Editors to nominated their selections from the 2019 volume. About a dozen excellent papers were nominated. One rose to the top. The winner of this year’s Margo Wilson Award goes to Professor Daniel Conroy-Beam and colleagues for their paper entitled “Assortative mating and the evolution of desirability covariation.” Congratulations to Daniel and his entire team!


Conroy-Beam, D., Roney, J. R., Lukaszewski, A. W., Buss, D.M., Asao, K., Sorokowska, A., Sorokowski, P., et al. [105 others] (2019). Assortative mating and the evolution of desirability covariation. Evolution & Human Behavior, 40 (5), 479-491.

 Abstract: Mate choice lies close to differential reproduction, the engine of evolution. Patterns of mate choice consequently have power to direct the course of evolution. Here we provide evidence suggesting one pattern of human mate choice—the tendency for mates to be similar in overall desirability—caused the evolution of a structure of correlations that we call the d factor. We use agent-based models to demonstrate that assortative mating causes the evolution of a positive manifold of desirability, d, such that an individual who is desirable as a mate along any one dimension tends to be desirable across all other dimensions. Further, we use a large cross-cultural sample with n = 14,478 from 45 countries around the world to show that this d-factor emerges in human samples, is a cross-cultural universal, and is patterned in a way consistent with an evolutionary history of assortative mating. Our results suggest that assortative mating can explain the evolution of a broad structure of human trait covariation.

A Letter from the Editor, Deb Lieberman

Dear HBES Members,

It has been a busy summer at Evolution and Human Behavior and I am pleased to provide you with several updates.


EHB Special Issues

Currently at EHB, we are working on the publication of two special issues. The first special issue, organized by Joe Henrich, Coren Apicella, and Ara Norenzayan, examines recent efforts to expand evolutionary social science research beyond WEIRD societies. The Beyond WEIRD special issue will be the next issue published (issue 5, 2020). The second special issue, organized by Willem Frankenhuis and Dan Nettle, is on Life History Theory and will be the 6th and last issue of 2020. In each issue’s Editorial/Introductory article, there will be details regarding how to submit commentaries—a feature I’d like to continue with each Special Issue published at the journal. I would like to take this opportunity to thank all of the Editors of both special issues for their hard work in pulling together excellent panels of papers. These special issues advance an important goal of the journal, which is to foster discussion and debate of scientific ideas as they relate to human evolutionary science. Thank you again!


EHB Reproductions

We are proud to announce a new article format at EHB called EHB Reproductions. EHB Reproductions report on efforts to replicate empirical research previously published in EHB. Reproductions follow the original methods and procedures to create conditions under which the original hypotheses can be tested. Deviations with respect to participants, materials, procedures, and analyses will be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. In general, though, researchers should attempt to use the same materials, procedures, and analytical techniques as employed in the original article, and, while I think this goes without saying, authors of original articles are encouraged to provide all necessary materials for successful attempts at replication.


An EHB Reproduction includes an Abstract of 250 words. The Introduction should identify the paper being replicated, the hypotheses being tested, the rationale for replication, the justification for the methods (including statistical power), and the main conclusions of the current work. The Introduction and Discussion should be no more than 1000 words combined. (The original article should have done the literature review and theoretical heavy lifting mostly freeing Reproductions from this task.) There is no word limit for Methods and Results, but authors are encouraged to be succinct. In the Methods, authors should be clear regarding the sample used, and any methodological or analytical deviations from the original article with justification. Ideally, references should be limited to around 10. Titles should conform to the following: “EHB Reproduction: Author (et al.), Date”. EHB Reproductions will be evaluated based on quality, not outcome. Authors of the original article will be offered an opportunity to respond to the replication effort in a commentary. Currently, EHB Reproductions are limited to empirical articles. Conceptual replications, including modeling papers, should be submitted as Research Reports.


Updates on Sample Description

In an effort to provide greater detail on samples reported in Research Reports and EHB Reproductions, the submission process will soon contain information regarding how to describe samples in both the Abstract and Methods. The Editorial Board is currently finalizing these instructions and we will post all updates to the online Guide to Authors.


Updates on Database and Stimuli availability

As a general policy, EHB will now require researchers during the submission process to provide access (via a link to an online repository or via supplementary materials) to anonymized datasets (when appropriate) and, when feasible, stimuli used to carry out the reported research.


Updates on Tables and Figures

This might seem trivial, but to facilitate peer review, we now ask that all tables and figures be embedded in the text of the submitted manuscript in their appropriate location in addition to being uploaded as separate files. (It’s the little things that matter.) I think that’s it for updates.


Have a safe and healthy start to the new school year,

Deb Lieberman, Editor-in-Chief, Evolution and Human Behavior

HBES Volunteer Coordinators Needed

We are looking for 2-3 postdoctoral researchers or graduate students to organize a new HBES Virtual Roundtable Discussion Series. Responsibilities include organizing, promoting (in coordination with the Communications Officer), and introducing each event. This is a great networking opportunity and comes with free HBES membership.


Interested persons should send an email to Coren Apicella capicella@psych.upenn.edu and Chris von Rueden cvonrued@richmond.edu by August 15th.

Change in Hormonal Contraceptive, Change in Heart?

by Juliana French & Andrea Meltzer


140 million. That’s how many women world-wide are estimated to use hormonal contraceptives such as The Pill. The main function of hormonal contraceptives (and a leading reason for why so many women use them) is to decrease the likelihood of conception. But through administering synthetic hormones to achieve protection against unwanted pregnancy, hormonal contraceptives incidentally alter a myriad of other physiological and psychological processes. In a recent paper, we examined the extent to which hormonal contraceptives may alter processes important for maintaining satisfying relationships, such as sexual satisfaction.

Sex is a central feature of adult romantic relationships, which is reasonable considering the adaptive value sex has for reproductive success. It is therefore not surprising that frequent and satisfying sex plays an important role in the maintenance of people’s long-term romantic relationships. Nevertheless, one of the most common side effects of hormonal contraceptives—an evolutionarily novel medical advancement—is decreased sexual desire among women who use them.

Hormonal contraceptives are therefore, by definition, an evolutionary mismatch. A classic, easy-to-digest example of an evolutionary mismatch concerns modern food availability. Humans have an evolved tendency to seek highly caloric foods because this would have been adaptive in our evolutionary history when such foods were scarce. In 2020, however, this evolved tendency may lead you to crave chocolate chip cookies and fast food. When not kept in check, these (once adaptive) cravings contribute to modern rates of obesity. Similar to the abundance of highly caloric foods in our modern environment being mismatched to our evolved psychology, hormonal contraceptives may be mismatched to our evolved relationship processes, explaining, at least in part, some relationship dysfunction such as sexual dissatisfaction.

So, now you may be wondering, “although hormonal contraceptives help to prevent unwanted pregnancy, are they harmful for my relationship?”

Not so fast – there’s more to the story.

A recent study suggests that whether a woman uses a hormonal contraceptive may be less important for her relationship than whether she changes her hormonal contraceptive use after relationship formation. Imagine one woman, for example, who was not using a hormonal contraceptive when she met her partner but decides to start using The Pill after they have been together for a little while (perhaps because she is likely to engage in relatively more frequent sex and doesn’t want to become pregnant). Imagine another woman who was using The Pill when she met her partner but decides to discontinue using hormonal birth control at some point in her relationship (perhaps because she and her partner are trying to become pregnant).

Hormonal contraceptive use that differs from a woman’s use when she met her partner is called hormonal contraceptive incongruency. Notably, many women become hormonal contraceptive incongruent at some point during their ongoing, long-term relationships. Moreover, because many women begin and discontinue hormonal contraceptives multiple times in the course of a relationship, they repeatedly fluctuate between being congruent and incongruent. Are women less sexually satisfied during those times when their hormonal contraceptive use is incongruent (compared to congruent) from their use at relationship formation? This is exactly the question we sought we answer.

We tested whether such within-person changes in hormonal contraceptive use that results in incongruency is associated with decreases in sexual satisfaction. To do this, we asked 203 heterosexual, newlywed wives if they were using a hormonal contraceptive when they began dating their husbands. Then, at the start of their marriages and again every four to six months for up to four years, those wives (a) completed a measure of sexual satisfaction and (b) reported whether they were currently using a hormonal contraceptive. Results demonstrated that wives reported lower sexual satisfaction at times when their hormonal contraceptive use was incongruent with their use at relationship formation compared to times when their hormonal contractive use was congruent with their use at relationship formation.


Wives reported lower sexual satisfaction at times when their hormonal contraceptive use was incongruent with their use at relationship formation


There are two ways to be incongruent with respect to hormonal contraceptive use, however. Whereas some women do not use hormonal contraceptives when they meet their partners and become incongruent when they begin using them, other women use hormonal contraceptives when they meet their partners and become incongruent when they discontinue their use. Is one form of incongruency more strongly tied to decreases in sexual satisfaction than the other? The short answer is, no. In our data, changes in sexual satisfaction that were associated with incongruency did not differ for wives who were incongruent by “starting” hormonal contraceptives after relationship formation versus those who were incongruent by “discontinuing” hormonal contraceptives after relationship formation.

These findings suggest that simply using a hormonal contraceptive may not necessarily increase one’s risk of experiencing sexual dissatisfaction in a relationship. Rather, it is hormonal contraceptive incongruency—either beginning or discontinuing the use of hormonal contraceptives after relationship formation—that seems to be associated with future sexual problems.

This work represents an important methodological advancement for research examining the implications of hormonal contraceptive for romantic relationship processes. Although others have previously demonstrated associations between hormonal contraceptive incongruency and relationship processes (for example, relationship satisfaction and jealousy), this paper is the first to do so using a longitudinal design and within-person analyses. Cross-sectional studies have sometimes failed to detect between-person effects of hormonal contraceptive incongruency, and—indeed—when we examined our data using between-person analyses at baseline we also did not detect differences in sexual satisfaction between women who were congruent versus incongruent. Crucially, the longitudinal method and corresponding analyses that we conducted in this paper enabled us to statistically separate those non-significant between-person differences in incongruency from the key significant within-person changes in incongruency that are central to the underlying phenomenon.

We see this as a fruitful starting point for many future research questions. For example, is changing your type of hormonal contraceptive—perhaps by either switching from one brand of The Pill to a different brand or to a different hormonal method such as The Patch—also a form of incongruency? And, if so, are these other potential forms of incongruency also detrimental to relationships?

Without having the longitudinal data to answer these questions, we can only speculate. It seems probable that, yes, there are likely multiple forms of hormonal contraceptive congruency. But the extent to which other forms of incongruency may impact relationship outcomes, such as sexual satisfaction, likely depends on how different the incongruency-related changes actually are. That is, changing from a progestin-only pill to a different progestin-only pill is less of an incongruency than changing from a progestin-only pill to a combination (estrogen and progestin) pill, and the latter is still less of an incongruency than discontinuing hormonal contraceptives altogether.

When women discuss birth control options with their medical doctors, the conversation often revolves around common side effects, such as weight gain, headaches, mood changes, and decreased libido (to name a few). Relational side effects that may occur as a result of changes in hormonal contraceptive use, such as decreases in sexual satisfaction, are less-often (if ever) considered or discussed. There are many factors that contribute to sexual satisfaction—for example, how attracted you are to your partner (which, by the way, hormonal contraceptives may also alter)—and our recent research suggests that hormonal contraceptive incongruency is one such factor. Given the adaptive significance of long-term relationships for humans, it is paramount to understand how modern novelties such as hormonal contraceptives can impact relationship processes and stability.



Read the paper: The implications of changing hormonal contraceptive use after relationship formation

Calculating Mate Value: A “Weighty” Task

By Gary Brase, Sydni Huxman & Jordann Brandner


Most of the time, you can only have one. Whether it is a college, a car, a home, or a relationship partner, people make difficult decisions about which options to pursue and which to not pursue. A big part of what makes these decisions difficult is that the options differ along many different traits. Possible relationship partners, for example, can vary on traits such as personality, intelligence, similarity of beliefs, health, physical attractiveness, facial attractiveness, financial status, and social status. These are all different traits, measured on totally different scales, yet somehow they must be combined into an overall evaluation and decision. There is a term for this overall evaluation: mate value. The decision about which possible partner to choose (“mate choice”) becomes easy once the mate values of the possible candidates are evaluated– choose the one with the highest mate value (assuming they will also choose you). That bypasses actually explaining much of the tricky work in this process, though. How is mate value calculated?

It turns out that there are many different possible ways to combine these qualitatively distinct traits to get an overall evaluation. Some strategies may allow high values on a trait to make up for being low on another trait, known as compensatory strategies. Others may be more non-compensatory, where traits can be “deal breakers” and a low value can eliminate a person from consideration. For example, if mate values is calculated with a compensatory calculation, extreme intelligence in a potential partner could make up for a poor financial condition. On the other hand, if mate value is based on a non-compensatory calculation, then no amount of intelligence can compensate for unacceptably poor finances. Yet, other calculations may be some mixture of the two, combining some compensatory aspects and some non-compensatory aspects.

In our recent research, we tested the performance of over seven different plausible ways that mate value could be calculated, across three different studies that used different types of information presentations. Our results show that the compensatory weighted additive model – where all the traits are combined, each adjusted for importance – outperformed all the others. The other models tested included an equal weights model, a “take-the-best” model, an aspiration models, a threshold model, Euclidean distance models, and correlational models. The last two models were also evaluated using participant’s rating of their “ideal” partner’s traits and their “realistic” partner’s traits (because you don’t always get everything you ideally want!).

One study had people choose “Person A” versus “Person B” based on tables that summarized each person’s as being either high or low on each of multiple traits (Personality, Intelligence, Similarity, Health, Body Attractiveness, Face Attractiveness, Finances, and Social Status). Each person in the study repeated this choice between two possible partners for 45 pairs of profiles, which were specifically designed to contrast the different possible mate value calculations. A second study used the same design, but had bars to show how high each possible partner was on each of the traits. A third study was designed to be closer to the format of dating sites; it used photos for each possible partner and descriptions of how well the person rated on each trait.

Regardless of how information was presented to people, the weighted additive model outperformed all the other options in accounting for the choices people made. Almost intuitively, it seems realistic that in the world of dating, high values on one trait may be able to make-up for other traits that they were lacking. Certainly, from an evolutionary standpoint, it might make sense that our ancestors would be willing to accept a partner who was extremely physically fit and healthy so that they could produce healthy offspring, even if they did not totally align in their belief systems or personality types. Part of what makes this research challenging is that all of the methods for integrating traits to calculate an overall mate value perform better than chance. The weighted additive model, though, did the best by predicting more of the choices than other models.


Almost intuitively, it seems realistic that in the world of dating, high values on one trait may be able to make-up for other traits that they were lacking.


Dating and choosing a partner is a complex process in the real world, and there are other factors involved beyond these studies. For example, potential partners (unlike cars and houses) have to reciprocate a positive choice. There are also possibilities that mate value evaluations incorporate other traits, or differ across demographic factors (such factors could include individual differences within populations or across populations – including non-WEIRD populations). There is also fascinating recent work on how people integrate the different traits of potential friends, extending this work to an additional, rich topic. Although there is much more work to be done in this arena, there is now strong evidence for the compensatory nature of traits in human dating decisions.



Read the paper: “Weighting” to find the right person: compensatory trait integrating versus alternative models to assess mate value

HBES Funding Grants Solicited for Oct 1 Deadline

The HBES Executive Council is now soliciting funding applications from HBES members for an October 1, 2020 deadline.


Two grants are available for this round of funding:

1. General Funding Grant, which is intended to subsidize costs associated with hosting events such as conferences and pre-conference meetings, workshops, and other activities or educational opportunities related to the mission of HBES.

HBES will fund proposals of up to $5,500 (we do not fund honoraria).

Priority is given to proposals that:

  1. Benefit junior scholars (and, especially students) either directly, through subsidizing travel and cost of attendance to events or, indirectly, through educational opportunities afforded by the funding;
  2. Have a broad, wide-reaching impact; and
  3. Support is not easily available through other channels.


2. Student Funding Grant, which is intended to subsidize the cost of hosting a guest speaker at the student’s home institution. The topic of the guest speaker must be related to the mission of HBES.

HBES will fund proposals of up to $2,500 to subsidize travel, accommodation, and event costs for the speaker (we do not fund honoraria).
Funding is limited to one funded proposal per institution, per year.
The student applicant is required to submit a written report to the council following the event.


See our Funding page for details, submission guidelines, and submission links.

Not an HBES member? Join or renew today!

Helping Behavior is Non-Zero-Sum

by Michael Ent


In the television show Man vs. Wild, Bear Grylls would venture into inhospitable areas attempting to show viewers how one could survive alone in the wilderness. Few people would be enthusiastic about following in his footsteps. This reluctance is partly because humans generally rely on help from others to fulfill even basic survival needs like food and shelter. Despite extensive training, even Grylls frequently ended up scrounging for insects and drinking his own urine out of desperation.

While studying a group of modern hunter-gatherers, Lawrence Sugiyama found that a majority of adults had suffered an injury or illness that hindered their foraging ability to the point that they would have likely starved if they had not received help from others. In such a group, it often pays to help others in need because you might need to rely those same people in the future if you find yourself in dire straits. In a less relatable example of helping behavior, vampire bats that have just eaten have been found to regurgitate blood to feed hungry bats with whom they have established a reciprocal relationship. When one bat finds food and her friend doesn’t, she may share some of the spoils; when she is starving and her friend finds food, her friend may repay the favor. Importantly, for this type of reciprocal helping behavior to evolve, the benefit to the recipient must outweigh the cost to the helper – it wouldn’t do much good for a satiated bat to regurgitate blood into the mouth of another satiated bat. In other words, for reciprocal exchange relationships to be mutually beneficial, individual helping acts must be non-zero-sum—one party’s gain does not correspond to equal losses incurred by the other party.

In our research, my co-authors and I found that, when people reflected on helping episodes from their past, they reported that the benefits to the recipients vastly outweighed the costs to the helpers. In other words, the help was non-zero-sum. In this research, pairs of friends recalled and reported about occurrences in which they helped each other. This yielded two accounts of each helping episode: one from the perspective of the helper and one from the perspective of the recipient. Both helpers and recipients consistently, and to an equal degree, reported that the benefits of the help outweighed the costs. If people tend to help one another when they can confer large benefits to their relationship partners without incurring much cost, then acts of helping don’t merely transfer value from one person to another, they create gains through exchange.


“If people tend to help one another when they can confer large benefits to their relationship partners without incurring much cost, then acts of helping don’t merely transfer value from one person to another, they create gains through exchange.”


This research relied on subjective reports of costs and benefits, so there could be motivational factors that reduce people’s tendency to report help as non-zero-sum. People tend to report events in ways that cast themselves in an unrealistically favorable light, known as self-enhancement bias. By exaggerating the costs of the help they provided, helpers could cast themselves as self-sacrificing heroes. On the other side of the coin, by downplaying the benefits of the help they received, recipients could highlight their own self-reliance. Both of these distortions could reduce the degree to which people would regard helping acts as non-zero-sum. Nevertheless, we found that both helpers and recipients consistently reported that the benefits of help outweighed the costs.

In our research, helpers and recipients differed on one important dimension: their perceptions of indebtedness. Helpers underestimated the degree to which recipients felt indebted as a result of the help they received. This finding dovetails with previous research that suggests that recipients tend to view the help they receive as more generous than those who provided the help. This type of helper-recipient asymmetry could enable relationships strengthen over time. For example, if I do a favor for my friend, I might view it as trivial and undeserving of reciprocity. However, my friend might view it as a big deal and repay the favor. In this case, I would feel like I received excessive reciprocity and would be motivated to do something nice for my friend in the future. In this way, the helper-recipient asymmetry we found in our research could contribute to self-reinforcing cycles of altruism. Previous research on the victim-perpetrator “magnitude gap” has found a similar pattern at play in escalating cycles of revenge. Victims tend to view transgressions as more heinous than perpetrators. Because of this asymmetry, when victims seek revenge, they tend to do so in a way that seems excessive to the original perpetrators (who may feel that they now have a score to settle)5. Taken together, helper-recipient and victim-perpetrator asymmetries may lead acts of altruism and acts of harm to escalate over repeated interactions of the parties involved. In other words, both altruistic and antagonistic relationships may amplify over time.


“Although helping behavior is not unique to humans, it is a vital part of human nature.”


In a now famous exchange, the anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked what she considered to be the first sign of civilization. Instead of citing tools, religious artifacts, or the like, she cited a healed human femur that was about 15,000 years old. She explained that a broken femur would have been tantamount to a death sentence, and the fact that it had healed indicated that the person must have received help from others. Although helping behavior is not unique to humans, it is a vital part of human nature. The non-zero-sum nature of human helping behavior means that acts of help don’t merely redistribute value, they bring more goodness into the world.



Read the paper: Helping behavior is non-zero-sum: Helper and recipient autobiographical accounts of help

How Does the Mind Make Friend Choices?

by Jaimie Arona Krems & Daniel Conroy-Beam with thanks to Laureon A. Merrie


Lenù & Lila, Gene & Phineas, Thelma & Louise, Cap & Bucky. Best friends are fixtures in our lives. Best friends might not benefit our fitness as obviously and directly as mates do, but having good friends is thought to be the next best thing for one’s health behind quitting smoking. In a recent paper, we ask how the mind might integrate our myriad friend preferences—for friends who are smart like Lenù, charismatic like Phineas, steadfast like Thelma or Cap—to make actual friend choices.

Perhaps in an ideal world, everyone we liked would like us back, time and affection would be infinite, and everyone we’ve ever encountered (and liked) we could maintain as friends. But as nice as ideal worlds and adages about the unbounded nature of love can sound, they bump up against reality. For example, time is inelastic yet required to maintain social relationships. To some extent, our affections might also be finite. In the end, we can maintain only so many ties at any one time.

Somehow, then, we must evaluate, compare, and ultimately select friends. Considering how important having friends and their support can be for one’s survival—and potentially even the thriving of one’s offspring—these friend choices matter.

To make these choices, we need an algorithm that combines information about what we prefer in friends, and the extent to which each prospective friend fulfills those friend preferences, presumably translating this information into a summary rating of sorts. There are a number of “preference integration” algorithms that could accomplish this.

In the mating literature, a Euclidean integration hypothesis has performed quite well. Therein, the Euclidean algorithm represents mate preferences and prospective mates as points within an n-dimensional space, computing a summary mate value that is inversely proportional to the distance between those points. For example, this summary can integrate the discrepancies between wanting a friend who’s a 10/10 in loyalty, a 10/10 on intelligence, a 4/10 on optimism, and so on, with a prospective friend who is a 6/10 on loyalty and intelligence and an 8/10 on optimism.

We tested whether some of those critical predictions derived from a Euclidean integration hypothesis—which have already found support in the mating literature—hold in the friendship domain. To do this, we gathered data from three separate samples of US participants (N = 817 undergraduate and adult community participant convenience samples). In each sample, we asked participants to rate themselves on 23 trait characteristics using 8-point bipolar scales. For example, we’d ask people to rate themselves as being “Very loyal” to “Very disloyal”. Participants also completed ratings for both their ideal same-sex best friends and their actual same-sex best friends. They also repeated this for their ideal and actual same-sex close friends and for their ideal and actual (or most recent) romantic partners.

We then computed several dimensions of partner value, including the friend and mate values of each participant, as well as the extent to which each participant’s actual best friends (and close friends, mates) fulfilled their ideals. For example, a person’s best-friend preference fulfillment was calculated as the Euclidean distance between the preferences they marked having in a best friend and where they marked their actual best friends as falling on those trait characteristics.

Using these data, we found support for several critical predictions implied by a Euclidean integration hypothesis in the friendship domain. First, we predicted that people who possess characteristics that render them ideal friends (i.e., people with high friend value) should be highly sought after, meaning that they have their pick of friends. Thus, we predicted—and found—that high friend-value individuals seem able to attract friends who better fulfill their preferences. We also predicted and found that high friend-value individuals not only set higher standards for ideal friends—after all, they would seem able to make such demands—but also that they report having real-world best friends who themselves have higher friend-value. In addition, we also explored these patterns with respect to people’s mate value, mate preferences, and mate preference fulfillment—replicating Conroy-Beam and colleagues’ previous research.


“We also predicted and found that high friend-value individuals not only set higher standards for ideal friends, but also that they report having real-world best friends who themselves have higher friend-value”


We also started to explore something new: the dissociability of friend- and mate-value. On one hand, the characteristics that make one an ideal friend (e.g., being nice) can overlap with the characteristics that make one an ideal mate (e.g., being nice). At the same time, people might also have some different preferences for prospective friends and mates. A same-sex friend who is highly sexually attractive might be a threatening rival in the mating domain, for example, but an other-sex mate who is highly sexually attractive might be rather desirable.

So, do people’s friend values better predict their friend outcomes (than mate outcomes), and do people’s mate values better predict their mate outcomes (than friend outcomes)?

Sort of.

We find some, albeit mixed, support for dissociability. This finding is particularly intriguing, though, insofar as it adds to the broader conversation about association value (see Michael Bang Petersen, Aaron Sell, John Tooby, and Leda Cosmides’ 2012 paper in this same journal for more on that).

A large part of the impetus for our work was to address the gap in friendship research. To some extent, these important relationships remain an evolutionary mystery. More work on friendships could contribute to solving that puzzle. Luckily, a pretty handy playbook for conducting some future work on friendship already exists—the robust, deep literature on mating relationships.

Here, drawing from work conducted in the mate preferences literature, we found some support for the Euclidean integration hypothesis, suggesting that this algorithm might be how the mind integrates friend preferences to make friend choices. However, exciting new work recently accepted at EHB also suggests another algorithm to explore in friendships (see Bradner, Brase, & Huxman, in press). We look forward to pleasantly arguing with our friends about this, and to the future of work on friendship in evolutionary social science.



Read the paper: First tests of Euclidean preference integration in friendship: Euclidean friend value and power of choice on the friend market